We have heard a lot of people complaining about so
many things in life. They would say, “I have so many things to do, I am doing
this, I am doing that and I have no more time for myself. I am working 7 days a
week, I have my service, and I have my siblings and parents to spend time with,
add to that I also have a relationship I entered into. Were will I be?”
Well in the first, you have to realize that it was you
who in the first place decided to be in that situation. It sounded like you
have no choice, but you do have a choice, the Lord said, "Look, I am sending you out as sheep among wolves. So
be as shrewd as snakes and harmless as doves,” Matthew
10:16. It means, use your mind! That’s
why you have a brain. The Lord did not gave you brain for nothing. You have to
use it. Stop blaming God for whatever happens in your life all the time,
because most of the things we experience are because of our decisions, or most
correctly stated, our indecisions. We blame God and others except ourselves. We
have problems and are suffering because:
1. We did not think,
weigh and discern things before acting on it. We just go because it was good at
the moment, but we don’t live for a moment, we live everyday and we suffer from
the consequences of a not so thought out decisions.
2.
We think only of
ourselves and what good it can do for us. But mind you, whether we like it or
not, we live with other people, so better yet include them in weighing in your
decisions. The way to happiness is when we start thinking of what is good for
others more than ourselves.
3. We are coward in
deciding. Where the wind blows, off we
go. We let the wind decide where it will bring us. The problem with this kind
of mentality is that we are at the mercy of the unknown, which is actually
scarier than what is known.
4.
We are lazy to
move ahead. We already know what is right, but we just keep on procrastinating
and ended up waking up one morning missing already years of our lives.
5. We decide but not
discern. Decision without God is forecasting while decision with God is
discernment. When you decide without God then you are like just forecasting
weather, when are the next storm, snow, earthquake and other natural calamities
in life? But just like forecasting you are sure errors are more, than the
correct ones. Decision with God is like allowing God to take the driver seat in
your life or allowing a pilot fly the plane instead of you. You decide but with
an experts advice.
Most of our present conditions that we don’t like, or
most of the situations we are into that we hate are actually but products of
not using properly the gifts the Lord has giving us. He has given as a mind to
think and decide with God. So come on, use your mind, be smart, God made you to
be smart! He did not give you a brain for nothing! Use it!
by aats
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