I was with some friends
talking random stuff including about relationships. Someone asked to a brother
why his relationship with someone ended. He answered, “I felt I lost myself.”
Then along the way, he realized, the split up was helpful for him to know
himself and find what he really wants. He then started to win her over again.
I think it is important
in every relationship that individuality of a person remains even as the person
gives himself freely. It is in this act of self-giving that the person finds
what he actually can sacrifice. So when we enter into a relationship and “fall”
in love, we actually don’t fall, we fly freely in love because love does not
imprisons, it frees!
It is in this freedom
that we find ourselves fully.
You don’t lose yourself
in love, you find yourself in love. Love is a homecoming. It leads you to your
true self.
Are you currently lost
in your relationship? Maybe it’s time to reflect if it is really for you.
by aats
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