Monday, June 22, 2015

Encounter

We don’t do lip service when we talk about relationship. We mean what we say. We are relationship builders! Encounter is at the heart of what we do. We are missionaries of encounter. We want to give opportunities for encounter, a life-changing encounter with Lord and a nourishing encounter with one another. In encounter we build relationship.

We are to build a culture of encounter not a culture of avoidance. The result of a culture of avoidance is unhealthy individualism that causes loneliness and despair. We don’t need to look far, we have seen it in our neighbourhood the effects of too much individualism. We cannot live alone for we cannot deny that we are social creature. We find joy, fulfillment and meaning in life when we build relationship with one another.

by aats 

Sunday, June 14, 2015

Healthy Assessment


Sometimes leaders think that they are really doing it right. They insist and justify their statements and actions and even go as far as criticizing others who does not think like them. Reality is we are not always right! It is always good to have a healthy assessment of oneself, listen more and justify less.

Am I still doing it right? Is this really what God wants or just what I want it to be? Are my lines of thoughts leading me closer to Christ and not my ego? Are my actions inspiring or expiring others? Is my intention pure?

by aats

Friday, June 12, 2015

On Hypocrisy


There’s a chapter in Matthew that talks about hypocrisy among leaders. Here, Jesus is admonishing his disciples, he started by saying: “The teachers of the law and the Pharisees sit in Moses’ seat. So you must be careful to do everything they tell you. But do not do what they do, for they do not practice what they preach. They tie up heavy, cumbersome loads and put them on other people’s shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to lift a finger to move them. Matthew 23:1-4 (NIV)

Then Jesus continued, “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You shut the door of the kingdom of heaven in people’s faces. You yourselves do not enter, nor will you let those enter who are trying to.

“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You travel over land and sea to win a single convert, and when you have succeeded, you make them twice as much a child of hell as you are.

“Woe to you, blind guides! You say, ‘If anyone swears by the temple, it means nothing; but anyone who swears by the gold of the temple is bound by that oath.’ You blind fools! Which is greater: the gold, or the temple that makes the gold sacred? You also say, ‘If anyone swears by the altar, it means nothing; but anyone who swears by the gift on the altar is bound by that oath.’ You blind men! Which is greater: the gift, or the altar that makes the gift sacred? Therefore, anyone who swears by the altar swears by it and by everything on it. And anyone who swears by the temple swears by it and by the one who dwells in it. And anyone who swears by heaven swears by God’s throne and by the one who sits on it.

“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You give a tenth of your spices—mint, dill and cumin. But you have neglected the more important matters of the law—justice, mercy and faithfulness. You should have practiced the latter, without neglecting the former. You blind guides! You strain out a gnat but swallow a camel.

“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence. Blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of the cup and dish, and then the outside also will be clean.

“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You are like whitewashed tombs, which looks beautiful on the outside but on the inside are full of the bones of the dead and everything unclean. In the same way, on the outside you appear to people as righteous but on the inside you are full of hypocrisy and wickedness.

“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You build tombs for the prophets and decorate the graves of the righteous. And you say, ‘If we had lived in the days of our ancestors, we would not have taken part with them in shedding the blood of the prophets.’ So you testify against yourselves that you are the descendants of those who murdered the prophets. Go ahead, then, and complete what your ancestors started!

“You snakes! You brood of vipers! How will you escape being condemned to hell? Therefore I am sending you prophets and sages and teachers. Some of them you will kill and crucify; others you will flog in your synagogues and pursue from town to town. And so upon you will come all the righteous blood that has been shed on earth, from the blood of righteous Abel to the blood of Zechariah son of Berekiah, whom you murdered between the temple and the altar. Truly I tell you, all this will come on this generation. Matthew 23:13-36 (NIV)

Very strong words coming out from Jesus, a condemnation on the hypocrisy of those in power! This is quite a warning to all leaders, especially those leading Christian communities. It is so easy to be blinded by position and trampling upon others.

There are leaders who think that they are doing the right thing and they insist they are, but upon deeper examination true motives are put into light. We can never hide from God and we can never forever hide from people.

As leaders we cannot demand others something we are unwilling to do ourselves. Might as well have self-assessment and reflect deeply how we are living our Christian life. People follow if we lead by example. 

by aats

Monday, June 8, 2015

Surveillance Mentality

There are just leaders who have this what I call, “surveillance mentality.” Their eyes are like CCTV camera everywhere. I defined it as someone who always wants to know everything because they do not trust the people under them. They are never contented to any explanation and always think that they are the only one doing the job.

Well nothing happens to that kind of mentality, it only exacerbates the situation. Instead of inspiring they ended up expiring people. They are faultfinder, energy sucker and joy stealer!

There’s a phrase in Filipino that aptly describes the feeling when confronted with this kind of people, “nakakawalang gana!” Literally it means causing you to lose appetite. There is no direct translation in English but it means, very disappointing and disheartening!

by aats